Published at Saturday, October 17th 2020, 02:37:32 AM. Travel Destination. By Landra Kohler.
In the 16 years that I have identified my friend Mario, I have discovered many different tales of his world travels and he is one of those people who have lived, worked, and hitchhiked through different exotic countries. Mario is a Toronto high school teacher and teaches French and world issues. He wasted time living and working in places like Thailand, Indonesia, Mexico, and Quebec and came face-to-face with often vastly diverse cultures.
Mario is also an immigrant in two separate countries, Australia where he moved as a small child in the 50s, and Canada, where he entered as a teenager. Here is his story, the story of an immigrant, traveler, and global adventurer.
1. Please tell us a bit about your background. Where were you born and where did you grow up?
I was born in San Vita al Tagliamento in northeastern Italy in the province of Friuli. But my parents are of Calabrese origin from Southern Italy. After his military service in the north of Italy, my father decided to stay there due to his fondness for Friuli culture. In 1953 my father relocated our family to Australia where he worked with a French contracting firm and we settled in Brisbane, Queensland when I was 2.5 years old. It was there that I had my first memories of the immigrant actuality which was a very simple house made of wood. The roof leaked into our house and we had plants growing through the floor in the kitchen. The conditions were very basic, but this would set the stage for 11 years of a very challenging cultural adaptation period, following which my father moved us to Canada in 1964.
At that time, Italians faced a lot of separation, even harassment, or sometimes violence in different forms, physical and psychological. My family was the target of various different forms of attack because we were immigrants. It made for a rather paranoid existence, constantly becoming to look over your shoulder.
Remember, this was the 50s and Australia was still governed within the framework of the "White Australia Policy", a form of standardized apartheid. I observed various acts of brutality towards Australian aborigines with whom I was often mistaken, given the darkness of my skin. The proximity to the sea, however, made me acknowledge the beauty of Australia in its purest form. During this time I developed a strong sense of self-reliance and I learned the importance of protecting myself.
In the mid-70s, I retreated to Australia and I noticed that the work of many of those earlier immigrants had born fruit in the form of healthy lifestyles and accomplished middle-class experiences. Italians had finally become mainstream and accepted. This also compared with Australia's new multicultural policy. Australia started to open up to different nationalities, which made for a more tolerant society.
2. You are a gifted multi-lingual individual. How many languages do you speak and what are they?
English and Italian are my first two languages. I also speak French, Spanish, and Portuguese at a rather high level. Besides, I also get by in Indonesian and I speak basic German and some idioms in Russian. The sound of different foreign languages intrigues me and I also recognize that speaking the language is the key to these foreign cultures. Apart from the initial period during high school when I was exposed to English, French, and German for the first time, the rest of my languages were acquired through living in the culture.
3. What was it like when you first came to Canada?
I remember it being very very cold since we came in Canada on February 16, 1964. My first check was a very abrupt introduction to the Canadian climate. For a good several years I found it very difficult to adapt to the climate. On the other hand, as far as culture went, I could eventually tap into my Italian-ness. It was actually in Toronto that the whole notion of being an Italian took on a new purpose for me because I felt accepted. I felt embraced here and felt that I could express my Italian heritage which led to me perfecting my Italian, considering I had suppressed speaking Italian in Australia. Once we came to Toronto I felt a desire to further go into the language.
A high school in Canada was an affection of many other languages. We were offered courses in French, German, Latin, and Spanish at the high school level. The school I went to reflected the transitional nature of Toronto at that time, which had been very WASP (white, Anglo-Saxon, Protestant) until the 1960s and from then on started to change into a more cosmopolitan atmosphere. There were people of different backgrounds which made you comfortable expressing yourself. By the time I went to university I was fairly at ease with my own intercultural identity.
My appreciation for the Portuguese started on a construction job in Tecumseh, Ontario, where 2 gangs of construction workers, one Italian, one Portuguese, were confined to a very small house, produced by the construction company, and were forced to live and interact with one another. I started to appreciate the similarities and variations with Portuguese culture, which I found fascinating. This was my introduction into the Portuguese language.
4. What were your most immediate travel experiences?
Apart from the immigrant boat travels, my first travel memories were when I hitchhiked to Niagara Falls and Barrie, a medium-size town 90 minutes north of Toronto when I was 15 years old. This gave me a sense of freedom and the ability to design my path on any trip. I felt in control and chose where I wanted to go. We did not realize that we needed a passport to cross into the United States, so we learned the lesson that you require your documents in order when traveling to foreign countries.
The next big trip was at the age of 17, crossing Canada with a fellow student in a VW beetle. We went to Vancouver for one month, picking strawberries, working on farms to survive. The second leg of that trip was to Mexico via California. This was the period of Height-Ashbury, the Summer of 68, and we truly encountered Flower Power in San Francisco. This left a lasting impression on me because of the spontaneity and camaraderie among the youth. Anybody would open their house to you and you felt a bond with many young people.
The paradox of this period was that it was during the Vietnam War. So just as you had young people bonding with each other, understanding that peace was the answer to the world's dilemmas, people were getting killed on the other side of the globe. The administration in Washington believed that war was the answer and these young people had in effect opted out of the system.
Mexico in itself was an eye-opener. It was my initiation into Latino culture and the decrepit third-world conditions of the masses. This was my politicization when I realized the plight of the majority of humanity and it made me even more curious to go back and get in contact with these people.
When I came back from Mexico it was very difficult to adapt to mundane middle-class values, just fitting into my place into my system. So I dropped out of 2nd-year university and extended traveling without a set itinerary.
I went to Europe first, beginning with London, worked in a hospital, and then spent 2 months traveling Europe on a Eurail pass. After Spain, I visited Morocco where I met a guy called Giovanni Pozzi who turned me onto images and illusions of Afghanistan, a place he had been to before. This created a great desire in me to also discover that part of the world.
After Morocco, I planned to meet up with Giovanni and travel with him from Brindisi, Italy, overland to Afghanistan. In September of 1971, I visited him in Milan after having gone back to discover my Italian heritage, and I then linked up with him in Brindisi from where we took a ferry to Greece and began our overland travel in the direction of Afghanistan.
We made it to the Turkish-Iranian border after a harrowing conflict on a Turkish train which derailed. Regrettably, I had not learned the lesson of my teen years and had not checked out visa conditions for Canadians. Iran needed a visa for Canadians, so I had to return to an Iranian consulate on the Black Sea where I obtained my Iranian travel visa. Somehow Giovanni and I got separated and this was the origin of true independent traveling. I learned never to depend on other people's information, always double-check everything yourself.
3. Please tell us of your experiences and impressions during your first trip to Asia.
After traveling through Iran for about a week, which was during the repressive reign of the Shah, I hitchhiked with 2 Pakistani truck drivers from Tehran to Mashad, the site of the Blue Mosque, one of the most magnificent mosques in the Islamic world. From there we went to Herat, Kandahar, and Kabul in Afghanistan, where I was privy to some of the most fantastic images of Afghan culture. I saw horsemen in bright green silk pants, in attire suited more to the Middle Ages than the 1970s. Afghanis resembled to be very proud people, dignified and ferociously independent.
After a short stay in Kabul, I went through the Khyber Pass into Peshawar in Pakistan. This too was an amazing view into the gun culture of this region. Every man had a gun 4, 5 feet long and it was truly an amazing sight to see this much weaponry on display. Unfortunately, this was to continue since war would erupt within Pakistan and India at this time, and after leaving Pakistan I ended up traveling through India during a time of war.
I was traveling on trains with a gathered army, a people in frenzied motion not knowing what to do. The whole country was in a state of tension. Foreigners were asked to leave the country, so after a month in New Delhi, I had to change my plans of attending Ceylon (present-day Sri Lanka) and take the next flight out of Calcutta in the direction of Bangkok. The flight ticket at that time cost US$80 one way in 1971. Calcutta was also the site of millions of refugees pouring in from what would ultimately become Bangladesh. They overtook Calcutta. I was about to sleep outside when I was approached by a couple of Anglo-Bengalis who insisted that it was improper for a European to sleep on the ground that way. They then asked that I go and stay with them for a couple of nights. Their only requested favor in return was to send them a Levi jacket when I'd get back to Australia.
4. From India you moved on to Thailand. Please tell us about your experience in South East Asia.
In Bangkok in 1971 I would stay at the Atlantic Hotel for $1 a night, Bangkok was still a comparatively small capital at that time. I left Bangkok and headed south, hitchhiking where I was brutally initiated to Thai culture. I was at the back of a pickup truck and hanging my feet out of it, the pickup truck was passed by another vehicle whose occupants got out and approached me, pointing to my feet. Luckily a young Canadian from Saskatoon, Murray Wright, was sitting in the front of my pickup and explained that it was a big mistake to show the soles of your feet. This is a major insult in Thai culture. I then realized that when traveling it is very important to understand non-verbal interaction as well. This was a major lesson for me.
This meeting with Murray was fortuitous. He had had an accident building a Japanese sugar factory and asked me if I would take over his job as a carpenter. This led to one month of working with Thais and understanding to some degree of Thai culture. It was also my first experience of amoebic dysentery, a tropical disease, which nearly killed me. This is how I was initiated to eating situations in the developing world.